What is the normal age to start dating
For some children, dating could mean hanging out at the mall or talking nightly on the phone.
Crushes can begin as early as elementary school, but most kids don’t think about “going out” until middle school.
There isn’t one easy answer that fits everyone, since you may have strict parents, or, or a unique cultural or religious background.
You’ll need to ask yourself some questions as well as ask the advice of people you trust to help you decide if it’s time to have a boyfriend.
Dating is a big part of a teenager’s life, and that’s our cultural way for kids to get to know each other and hopefully find the person they are ultimately going to marry. Now, let me separate between single dating and group dating. Some great work was done by Josh Mc Dowell in a campaign that he did, and he found out that the younger a kid starts dating, the more apt they are to lose their virginity by the time they graduate from high school. If you wait until they are sixteen, it’s down to 20%. When you figure a year’s time—365 days in the life of a young person—it’s an amazing amount of maturity that’s happening in that time. Dads say, “Well, I’m scared to death to do that.” Well, you know, I don’t want to be blunt, but we need to cowboy up on this one.
According to the NYU Child Study Center, pre-teens (9 to 12 years old) may say they have a boyfriend or girlfriend, but do not spend time with their crushes outside of school or group gatherings.
As children get older, they may begin pairing up, and nearly 75 percent of teens aged 15 to 19 reported having dated or been in a relationship.
If we don’t, boy, we throw them out there to the predators of our culture that could really do a lot of damage.
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, kids are starting to date earlier than ever before, with the average age 12-and-a-half for girls and 13-and-a-half for boys.Dear Kim, Thank you for your excellent question and for your patience in waiting for my response!